Writing Memoir

You can write memoir without writing an actual memoir.

Let’s say you’re creating a cookbook and you want to include how you learned a recipe—you’re writing memoir. Or an article on car maintenance or skiing or whatever your expertise or enthusiasm is: including some material about your experience will make your piece more lively and engaging to a reader.

Or, let’s say you’re writing “autofiction,” or fiction based on your own life. This is memoir in disguise, with permission to alter the truth. In fact, all novelists draw from their own experiences for their stories, since we are all our own best source of information about human nature.

How Do You Write a Full-Length Memoir?

Let’s say you want to write an actual memoir: a full-length book telling a story that happened to you. You probably have a lot of questions, so we’ll answer the most common ones.

  • A memoir is like a novel: it’s a story with a beginning, middle, and end, in which you are the main character. An autobiography is the record of someone’s life to date: usually a famous person whom people want to know about.

  • Most great memoirs are written by people who weren’t famous before writing them. Mary Karr, Jeannette Walls, Tobias Wolff…. You are absolutely entitled to write a memoir, if you have a story to tell.

  • People care about characters in books, and they’re not even real. So you’re starting with an advantage! They’ll care about you for the sane reason they care about characters in novels: because they identify with your desires and needs and struggles, and are intrigued by your account of how you handle what life threw at you.

  • There’s no rule about when you should or shouldn’t write a memoir. If you’re young and you have a story to tell that reaches some kind of conclusion, go ahead and tell it!

  • Big question! Most memoirs are in some way a story of transformation. So asking yourself, ”What was my transformation?” is a great place to start.

  • You don’t have to know when you start writing as Allegra explains in the video “Do You Need an Outline?” below. Generate material and allow your imagination to surprise you by making connections you didn’t realize were there. Likely some incidents you think are very important will turn out not to be, and others that seem trivial or forgotten right now will become turning points. This is why writing a memoir is an exciting exploration: your story may not be quite what you thought it was.

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Allegra’s memoir, Love Child: A Memoir of Family Lost and Found, was highly praised by critics and other writers including Salman Rushdie, Simon Schama, and Susanna Moore. As an editor, she has worked on memoirs by many distinguished writers.

Memoir Resources

Imaginative Storm Writer Training

This live online 10-week course was developed by co-creator Allegra Huston, author of the best-selling memoir Love Child, with both fiction and memoir writers in mind. You’ll be guided through our curriculum in a small cohort of other writers, receiving craft advice and coaching from co-creator James Navé.

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Write What You Don’t Know audio or video course

The same curriculum as Imaginative Storm Writer Training, in a self-paced course you can work with at your own convenience. It covers every major aspect of telling a compelling story, whether fiction or nonfiction.

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The Manageable Memoir

Not all memoirs have to be full-length books, with a continuous plotline. We’ve developed a method for creating a kind of collaged memoir, inspired by Imaginative Storm co-founder James Navé’s book 100 Days: Poems After Cancer.

This self-paced online course is approximately 90 minutes: also short and manageable. Use it to build a memoir in 100 days .Or less.

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Come Write with Us!

Everything we do in the Imaginative Storm is suitable for writers across the spectrum: from those who consider themselves beginners to published writers with many titles to their name.

  • Join our Prompt of the Week Zoom to write to a random prompt for 10 minutes! We usually have some newcomers, and we will welcome you. It’s on Thursday at 3 pm PT / 6 pm ET, for an hour.

  • Explore our Circle site, where we publish the raw material we write in 10 minutes. You’ll get an idea of what’s possible, and how we support one another with appreciation rather than competition or criticism.

  • Get our Daily Prompt delivered straight to your inbox every morning.

  • Check out our vast archive of image prompts on YouTube. We guide you step by step in working with the prompt, share what we did in our Saturday session, and time you for 10 minutes while you write.

  • Let us guide you step by step through the 10 sessions of the Imaginative Storm method, in our self-paced online course Write What You Don’t Know: Imaginative Storm Writer Training. The course includes a monthly live Zoom with Imaginative Storm co-founders Allegra Huston and James Navé. Ask us anything!

  • Sign up for one of our live workshops, on Zoom or in person, and explore the memoir, or fictional story, you might write.

  • Order our book Write What You Don’t Know: 10 Steps to Writing with Confidence, Energy, and Flow.

  • Subscribe to Imaginative Storm on Substack for our newsletter with thoughts on writing.

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